Posts Tagged ‘education’

Observations #2

Saturday, May 1st, 2010

It’s funny how we tend not to attach last names to people anymore.

In almost any given environment with a reasonably large number of people (maybe less a very professional workplace), we tend not to differentiate people of the same name by using their last names but instead attach an adjective that best describes (or conjures an image of) them.

For example, the country of origin is one of the common adjectives used in schools with a number of international students. E.g. China John, Malaysia John, Korea John… The next most common adjective used then are physical attributes such as size, height, smell (LOL) or other distinct attributes such as sexual orientation, a peculiar behaviour, dress sense and so on.

I guess it’s easier to attach these characterising adjectives in certain situations, especially if the nature of their last name makes it hard to remember or pronounce.

Just an observation.

Observations #1

Tuesday, April 20th, 2010

In life, sometimes we make the wrong (maybe not entirely wrong, just the one that’s “less right”) choices and end up with a less than satisfactory result/outcome than the one we originally hoped for.

The period of regret and “emoing” that comes after is almost a given. The problem with some people is that it loops in a vicious cycle. We say things like “Oh I’ll try harder next time” or “I’ll promise to change” or “This is the last time I’ll XXX”. But we never change.

The general idea of meritocracy where hard work in = good results out (although not always necessarily true), is almost universally understood, yet somehow this simple rule/guideline seems to go mostly ignored or at the most adhered to for a short period of time before somehow vanishing somewhere in our heads.

Luck can only take you so far.

“There is no elevator to success. You have to take the stairs.”

Don’t get me wrong, this is not a lecture of sorts, just an observation.

And I’m thankful to God for His mercies and grace for the results that I’ve obtained so far. Because without Him, I would have never have achieved these things and yet he provides ever so freely and willingly even though I’m undeserving of His grace. In my weaknesses and foolishness, God makes His glory known. I have to constantly remind myself that these achievements and successes are not of my own power or wisdom but of His, less arrogance and pride starts to breed in my heart.

This week will be a tough week even as my ISAT results are being released. The struggles within my heart are of a million different conflicts, each thought colliding head on with one another. The “what-ifs” and the “should-Is”. Should I already be expecting good results? Should I be thankful no matter what the result? Should I be preparing for the worst and thinking of all the negative outcomes?

The only thing I’ve come to know and know is that His ways are infinitely higher than mine and that I can find comfort in his mercies and providence, always.

“Be Still, and Know that I Am God.” – Psalm 46:10

AT-ed

Wednesday, November 25th, 2009

One of the funniest things I’ve seen in a while.

my proj experience with tiongs have been good so far. i choose my tiongs to leverage on their expertise..

when i do core proj, i find core ah tiong to do. they wont dare to screw up anything one. they want their first class. while i need them to maintain my third class… mutual benefit.

on the other hand, i have bad exp with locals.